The blog is my personal inspirations on the issues that are dear to me. I am passionate about the rights of women and girls to live in dignity, and transformative leadership. Desiderata inspires me, that I am a child of the universe and I Inspire others that you can Dare to Dream
“A man who calls his kinsmen to a feast does not do so to save them from starving. They all have food in their own homes. When we gather together in the moonlit village ground it is not because of the moon. Every man can see it in his own compound. We come together because it is good for kinsmen to do so.” ― Chinua Achebe, Things Fall Apart
the village everyone knew everyone within several kilometers radius. Everyone was into everyone's business.
“Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing”. Ricki Lake It
was a beautiful Sunday morning. Sundays mornings are usually beautiful. Serene.
It is like the weather knows it is a Sunday and even if it rains, the day has a
sunny demeanor. May be because there is less traffic in Nairobi. Less pollution
unless you neighbor some Church with blaring noise.I have never understood why they do this. The
megaphones outside the Church preaching to everyone who is not interested in
the preaching. Anyway, as usual, I had plans to start the day with Sunday Mass,
but his plans…well he had different plans. I ended up spending part of the
Sunday Mass time outside the Church when my terrific two son decided there was
more interesting stuff outside. Despite
the accommodating section for lactating mothers and young babies in the Church,
he was uncooperative. “Enough
is enough.” He said …through tantrums. He
wanted to play, not pray. Sometimes, most times, he is more cooperative. To be
fair to h…
Dear son, You are now a Terrific Two!
A whole two years of existence. You came into my life and
changed my world. The first fruit of my womb. Turned it in more ways than I can
imagine. It is said life begins at 40, so what a joy to start a new life at 40!
From the first minute you came into the world, you silently whispered “we are
in this together”. While I could not hold you for some time, I said a prayer
“Lord I need to bring up this boy”. I don’t know if I fell in love or grew in
love, long before I saw you. Knowing you were forming in a world I could not
see, yet the growing bump was evidence that there is a life coming up shortly!
The bump did not grow fast enough for me to get…you know those social
privileges of not queuing … I am not complaining. We walked, we shopped, we
planned, we prayed, we played. Then you came, and life has never been the same
again. You were an energetic boy
from the word go. You fought the nurses who tried to put some sharp needle in
your little arm. I re…
“Each one of us can make a difference. Together we make change”. Barbara Mikulski
There are times you just bump into something (or someone) and know it was meant to be. I bumped into social work and in particular into gender and development work. There, I found my passion and my mission and my professional career path. Sometimes career path chooses you, but that is a story for another day.
One day I will document my experiences in social work, the good, the exciting, the scary, the bad, the ugly, but more so what keeps me at it. I have not imagined my life away from social work. There is something about social work that runs deep and builds me as a human being.
Whether engaged in development or humanitarian kind of work, social work can never leave one the same. It challenges one to a higher level of appreciating humanity and retrospection on what life is about. When doing social work you interact with different kinds of people and lifestyles but more so different levels of poverty a…
“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy”. Nhat Hanh
She smiled. I looked up and smiled. We both smiled. We both knew that this was not just a coincidence but a meaningful smile.
“You could smile more often” I had told her several months ago.
I met this young woman in a guest house while travelling in a field site in Uganda. She works in the guest house and I had noted how she was acting and wondered if she knew life is too short to live with a sad face. She was far from polite but something about her pulled me towards her. I thought of her as young woman struggling with life’s challenges and wondering when the day would end, starting another day and the drudgery continued. One day after telling me in a “do-not-disturb-me” tone that what I needed was not available, I called her aside and started chit chatting with her. I reminded her that she was in the hospitality industry that required that one be hospitable to others…